Wednesday, February 28, 2024

The Lemon Tree

The Lemon Tree: An Arab, A Jew, and the Heart of the Middle East by Sandy Tolan
Read February 2024 - Books With Friends



This is a book that I believe everyone should read.  I knew that I didn’t know much about the middle east, but wow... this book enlightened me in ways far beyond my imagining.  The author manages to inform us about the history of both sides - the Palestinian history and the Jewish history.  That is so important.  The awful part is you begin to realize how deep the conflict is and how there really doesn’t seem to be a ‘good solution’.  Heartbreaking in so many ways.  


Note - there is also a Young Readers version of this book.  That seems very important to me.  


The book begins in 1967 with a young Palestinian man, Bashir Al-Khayri, returning to Israel to his childhood family home and ringing the doorbell.  Years earlier his family had fled (or been pushed out) and a Jewish family escaping WW2 Europe later moved into the ‘abandoned’ house.  A young member of that Jewish family, nineteen year old Dalia Landau, opens the door when he rings and thus begins a decades long friendship that is complex and ultimately hope-filled.  We learn details about both families and their extreme hardships.  This book showcased so well the complexity of the Israeli-Palestinian conflict - shown here in the stories of just two young people, Bashir and Dalia. 


A friend, and member of this book club, created the following list of phrases and points as an easy reference resource.  I really appreciate this list and it is especially helpful for those who are listening to the audiobook as well. 


43 - fragility of goodness

82 - “country without a people, and people w/o a country” Really?

84 - single vs 2 separate states

104 - custodian of “abandoned property”

107 - told Palestinians had “run away”

108 - first paragraph

114 - 2nd para - plea to God

115

116-117 discrimination, dark and light Jews

118 Sabra

119 never again

122

124 force expelled us and only force will get it back

125 water

147 house tour

160-161 indigenous people ignore

161 last sentence

177-178 Ahmad visits his house

179-180 Dalia feels betrayed

186 sadati

193 “stone” revolution

194 Hamas

199 Netanyahu

200-203 Dalia’s letter

204 UN sanctioned right of return

212-213 Can they compromise?

216-220 Bashir’s letter



During our discussion one member mentioned a podcast with the two primary people from this book, Bashir and Dalia.  I defintely intend to listen to this. 

From NPR's Fresh Air "Homelands" series (~1998), with Bahsir and Dalia talking (about an hour) : https://freshairarchive.org/segments/sandy-tolans-lemon-tree


And this is a short clip (~8min), cut from the Fresh Air series, if you just want to hear the voices and a few quick pieces:

https://www.npr.org/2006/06/04/5449840/lemon-tree-finds-friendship-amid-mideast-conflict 


Another link - author Sandy Tolan speaking about his book The Lemon Tree - Video of Sandy Tolan (~2006) discussing The Lemon Tree at a book talk: https://www.c-span.org/video/?193422-1/the-lemon-tree-arab-jew-heart-middle-east



I absolutely recommend this powerful book and rated it a 5. 




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