Finished February 28, 2023
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Tuesday, February 28, 2023
Puzzle #17 - Ravensburger - Scenic Overlook - 500 pieces
Finished February 28, 2023
The Lazy Genius Way
...but as a self-righteous perfectionist, I was obsessed with keeping score, avoiding failure, and being impressive. Comparison and judgment were par for the course.
When you care about something, you try to do it well. When you care about everything, you do nothing well, which then compels you to try even harder. Welcome to being tired.
Little did I know you can be just as exhausted from not trying as you can from trying too hard. Managing apathy and survival mode takes as much energy as managing rules and perfection.
Our culture is obsessed with being real, but we’ve been using the wrong measuring stick.
I’m all for letting go of perfection, but we’ve somehow conflated order with being fake.
I want to stop judging women who have it together, assuming they have something to hide. I want to stop applauding chaos as the only indicator of vulnerability.
You can be real when life is in order and when it’s falling apart. Life is beautifully both.
Constant decision-making is one of the reasons you don’t have energy for things that matter to you.
Stuff is the enemy of clean, and the more stuff you have, the harder it is to clean your house.
The Light We Carry
Remarkably Bright Creatures
Read February 2023
This month I read Remarkably Bright Creatures by Shelby Van Pelt. I thoroughly enjoyed it and especially loved the ‘voice’ of the octopus. It was a pleasant read after the super heavy Tattooist of Auschwitz.
I read this for Well Read Book Club and thoroughly enjoyed it. Who wouldn’t love that octopus? He was so perfectly written - I could picture every scene with him perfectly. About the storyline - yes, I had read some critiques about how there were too many coincidences... but that was just the beauty of this particular story. It was meant to be that way! And I loved all the full circle connections and relationships. And of course I loved the redeeming qualities of the story - I’m a big fan of people getting their lives together and living happily (mostly?) ever after.
Some highlights from the book...
Humans. For the most part, you are dull and blundering. But occasionally, you can be remarkably bright creatures.
Why can humans not use their millions of words to simply tell one another what they desire?
She understands what it means to never be able to stop moving, lest you find yourself unable to breathe.
Some trees aren’t meant to sprout tender new branches, but to stand stoically on the forest floor, silently decaying.
Humans are the only species who subvert the truth for their own entertainment. They call them jokes. Sometimes puns.
The Visitors: A Novel
I was in the mood for one of those long meandering books like a good Rosamunde Pilcher or Maeve Binchy. But since I have pretty much read all of those, I pulled this one out. It rose to the top of my selections based entirely on its (mostly) Egypt locale. I really did enjoy this book a lot, but admit that I took my time reading it. I even stopped halfway through to finish up my other book club books by their deadlines. But I really enjoyed all the details surrounding the excavation of King Tut’s tomb in the Valley of the Kings. Having visited that site (and others in Egypt) myself, I could truly picture the area and feel the heat and smell the Nile.
This book spans the globe with action taking place in England, Egypt and even the US. The time period of 1922 through the war years provided the ‘epic’ part of the read (that I do enjoy). :) And I was fascinated by the character development. I loved Lucy’s spunk and determination in spite of all odds.
Coming back to update 3/13/23 - I am liking this book more and more after finishing it. I keep thinking about it and realize it was a very good book.
Update again on 7-26-23 - Definitely giving this book a 5. I just read The Collector’s Daughter based on the life of Eve Carnavon and was so glad I had read The Visitors - it certainly gave more depth to the current book.
Notes and Highlights -
bit late, you’ll say – but better late than never, don’t you agree? I always wanted to be a writer – I wrote poems as a girl, you know, and my, oh my, how I fussed over the scansion and the rhymes! Then, somehow, I lost the habit, and all my splendid ambitions went underground. Never, never let that happen to you, Lucy, dear . .
never attempt to come between two people who love one another. Anyone who does that will always and inevitably lose.’
‘How hard it is, being old, too many memories,’
Times change, of course, and what we value – the way we value, alters. How do we decide this is worthless, and that is a treasure? Unless the object concerned is of gold, of course, whose value never declines, whose glitter can never be resisted.
Hidden Figures
Hidden Figures was appreciated by all but was a tougher technical read than many of us had thought it might be. However, all that technical information was foundational for telling the remarkable stories of these incredible women. Their individual stories were powerful and inspiring and I truly do feel that the book and the movie go well together - each offering something to enhance the other. The book gives the depth and the movie highlights the inspirational story and heart. I am definitely going to re-watch this movie soon! And may have to add to the list The Right Stuff, as well!
Book club score - 3.8
But the movie version received a universal 5 from each of us! :)
Article about Katharine Goble Johnson’s death at 101
https://www.nytimes.com/2020/02/24/science/katherine-johnson-dead.html
The Tattooist of Auschwitz
Sunday, February 19, 2023
Puzzle #16 - Bits & Pieces - Marvelous Garden - 500 pieces
Finished February 19, 2023
Wednesday, February 15, 2023
Puzzle #15 - Falcon - Greetings from Scotland - 1000 pieces
Finished February 15, 2023
Sunday, February 12, 2023
Puzzle #14 - Falcon - Corner Shops The Toy Store - 1000 pieces
Finished on February 12, 2023
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Finished on February 12, 2023
Saturday, February 11, 2023
Puzzle #13 - Vermont Christmas Company - Venice Cafe - 550 pieces
Finished on February 11, 2023





















































